The Power of Pairing: Essential Techniques for Special Needs Ministry Training

Pairing is a transformative concept in special needs ministry training that can make a significant difference in how students engage with your ministry. Have you ever had a student refuse to enter your ministry classroom, leaving their parent to sit with them during Sunday school, or worse, having the family leave altogether? Or perhaps you've seen students who refuse to participate in certain activities or be in specific locations within your ministry space.

This is where pairing comes in. Pairing involves connecting something a student loves (preferred) with something they are less inclined towards (non-preferred), helping them transition and engage more willingly. By mastering the art of pairing, you can create an inclusive and welcoming environment where every student feels comfortable and involved. 

When to pair:

• Students refuse to enter your ministry classroom
• Students refuse to go to a certain location in your ministry room (front carpet, small group table, large group area)
• Students refuse to participate in activities in your ministry (story time, small groups activities, group discussions, games, etc.)

How to pair:

• Determine the activity or location that the student is avoiding
• Determine what the student LOVES! (toy cars, trains, dinosaurs, barbies, etc.)
• Combine the two! Only do FUN things at the location that the student is avoiding (can be for a few minutes, weeks or even months depending on the severity of avoidance).
• Once the student is paired with the location or activity, slowly add in small tasks related to the activity or location that the student can do.
• Fade the reinforcement (the fun thing you were doing to pair) and add in more tasks until the student is able to participate with the rest of the class! 

Mastering the art of pairing and implementing this technique in your special needs ministry training can transform your ministry, empower your volunteers, and create an environment where every student feels comfortable and included. By strategically pairing preferred activities or items with less preferred tasks or locations, you can help students transition smoothly and engage more fully in your ministry.

Remember, the key is to be patient and consistent, gradually increasing the student's involvement while reducing reliance on the initial reinforcement. Implementing these pairing techniques in your special needs ministry not only supports the students but also fosters a more inclusive and welcoming atmosphere for everyone involved. With dedication and creativity, you can make your ministry a place where all students thrive and feel valued.

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